A space to regulate, restore and rise

At Evolve by Choice, we help you improve your overall wellness by teaching practical tools to regulate your nervous system and build emotional resilience. This allows individuals, families, educators, athletes and teams to stay calm, connected, and in control.

Suppose you’re a parent supporting a tween, an educator facing burnout, a leader managing team dynamics, or an athlete performing under pressure. We give you science-backed strategies to shift from reaction to response, from survival mode to intentional living.

This is real-world mental health support, designed to help you evolve by choice, not by chance.

Science-backed tools for real-life challenges

The pressure is relentless; deadlines, expectations, the constant juggle of work, family, and everything in between. You push through, telling yourself you’ll slow down soon. But soon never comes.

Your nervous system is wired for survival, constantly scanning for threats in a process called neuroception. When life feels overwhelming, your body shifts into fight, flight, or freeze, often without you even realising it. You stay switched on, managing everyone else’s needs while ignoring your own, until stress becomes your new normal.

For parents supporting tweens and teens through emotional outbursts, social challenges, high-pressure sport, or the push to excel academically, this survival mode shows up in all kinds of ways. Meltdowns. Shutdowns. Snapping at you one minute, withdrawing the next. Their confidence dips, focus fades, and emotional resilience starts to slip, especially when the pressure builds.

But you don’t need to stay stuck in survival mode. You just need the tools to reconnect with that calm, steady version of yourself. The one who leads, competes and supports with clarity.

Has stress become your new normal?

At Evolve by Choice, we help you break the cycle. Whether you’re an individual, a parent, a leader, or an educator, we give you practical tools to regulate your nervous system, manage stress, and build lasting emotional resilience.

Using science-backed strategies, we retrain how your autonomic nervous system responds to pressure. Through practices that support neuroplasticity (your brain and body’s ability to rewire stress responses), you’ll shift from overwhelm to clarity, from exhaustion to control, and feel fully present in your work, relationships, and your own body.

Stress is constant. How you respond is a choice. And when your nervous system is regulated, everything shifts.

Evolve by Choice Programs & Workshops

For Everyday Life
(Community breathwork and cold exposure experiences)

Release stress, reconnect with your body, and build resilience through guided breathwork and cold exposure in a safe, supportive group setting.
For Tweens & Teens
(Empower Me Within: resilience programs for girls aged 8–15)

Equip your child with tools to manage emotions, navigate friendships, and build confidence through this 6-week program focused on emotional regulation and self-leadership.
For Educators & Schools
(The Regulated Educator: accredited training for wellbeing and resilience)

Give your staff practical strategies to manage stress, prevent burnout, and model emotional regulation for their students, reigniting their passion for teaching.
For Corporate Teams
(Resilient Teams: workplace wellbeing workshops)

Enhance team cohesion, leadership, and emotional intelligence with practical workshops designed to improve resilience and performance under pressure.
For Athletes
(Mindset and Performance Coaching: resilience for sport and life)

Allowing athletes to stay calm and in control, on and off the field. Our mindset coaching blends nervous system regulation with performance strategies to build emotional resilience and manage pressure.
Testimonials

Real People. Real Transformation.

As a mother, all you ever want is for your child to feel confident, capable, and supported — and that’s exactly what working with Lou has given my daughter, Chloe. Since starting 1:1 coaching and joining the Empower Me Within program, I’ve seen an incredible transformation in her. Her confidence has grown in ways I never imagined—she walks taller, speaks up more, and believes in herself, both on and off the court. Lou has helped her build resilience, not just in sport but in life, teaching her how to navigate challenges with grace and grit. Most importantly, Chloe now sees herself as a leader. She’s stepping up, encouraging others, and showing up with strength and heart in everything she does. I’m beyond grateful for the positive impact Lou has had on her journey—it’s been truly life-changing

Angela Henderson

Angela Henderson Consulting

Lou is incredible. I have had the opportunity to do two breathwork sessions with Lou and each time they have been amazing. As a neurologist myself her explanation of the neurology of breathing and what it does is so precise and so simple. I love her work and will be back for more.

Sandy Clark

3 hour Breathwork Workshops

Your nervous system is your inner compass

Everything shifts when your body feels safe

Your nervous system is at the core of how you experience life. It shapes how you think, feel, and respond in work, in relationships, in sport, in parenting, and within yourself.

When it’s regulated, you feel calm, focused, and in control. When it’s not, even simple things become overwhelming.

As a parent, you snap more, sleep less, and feel guilty for losing patience. You’re always on.

For young people, stress shows up as meltdowns, withdrawal, outbursts, or pressure to perform.

In the workplace, stress kills focus, breaks down communication, and pushes teams into burnout.

At Evolve by Choice, we teach practical tools to understand and regulate these stress responses. Through science-backed methods like polyvagal theory, breathwork, and somatic practices, we help individuals, families, and athletes build emotional resilience from the inside out.

When your body feels safe, you can lead, support, and perform with clarity and calm. True resilience starts with a regulated nervous system.

 

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Why nervous system regulation matters

You can’t avoid stress. Deadlines, conflict, unexpected challenges are part of life. But what you can control is how your body responds to them.

Your autonomic nervous system is the control centre for how you think, feel, and react. When it perceives constant threat (real or imagined) it triggers survival responses like fight, flight, or freeze, which can leave you feeling reactive, scattered, and disconnected.

But when your nervous system is regulated, everything shifts. You regain access to your executive functions like decision-making, empathy, and focus, allowing you to:

  • Stay steady and clear-headed under pressure
  • Respond with calm, instead of reacting on autopilot
  • Lead, parent, and communicate with emotional intelligence
  • Stay grounded and connected to yourself and others
  • Move through high-stress situations with more ease and confidence

When your nervous system is dysregulated, everything feels harder. But when you learn how to reset and regulate, you’ll show up with more presence and clarity in every area of life.

Because real resilience starts from within.

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For Everyday Life

Breathwork and cold exposure reset your nervous system, activating the vagus nerve to release stress and restore balance, so you feel calm, clear, and connected in everyday life.

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For Tweens and Teens

Empower Me Within teaches girls aged 8–15 to recognise and regulate stress responses, building resilience, confidence, and calm, both in friendships and under pressure in school and sport.

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Mindset and Performance Coaching

Empowering athletes to manage stress, stay focused under pressure, and build the emotional resilience needed to perform at their best, on and off the field.

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For Educators and Schools

The Regulated Educator helps teachers manage stress and model emotional regulation, creating classrooms where staff and students feel safe, connected, and ready to learn.

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For Corporate Teams

Stress shuts down focus and teamwork. Our workshops teach teams to regulate their nervous system under pressure, improving communication, leadership, and performance.

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Evolve by Choice:
A framework for empowered transformation

At the heart of our work are three essential pillars:

  • Emotional Intelligence – understanding and managing emotions with clarity
  • Health – supporting mental and physical wellbeing through evidence-based practices
  • Connected Relationships – fostering deeper connection with yourself and others

Together, these pillars create a foundation for empowered transformation and sustainable, meaningful growth.

We don’t believe in quick fixes. But we do believe in practical tools, grounded support, and building real-world skills that help you stay calm, connected, and in control, no matter what life brings.

By integrating Emotional Intelligence, Health, and Connected Relationships, you build a foundation for real, sustainable growth. Together, these pillars empower you to lead yourself with clarity, adapt to life’s challenges with resilience, and grow in a way that feels meaningful and lasting.

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Hi, I’m Lou

As a high school educator, Master Breathwork Instructor, and former military Psychological Examiner, I’ve spent over a decade working in high-pressure environments where performance under stress isn’t optional. For 11 years, I worked alongside elite soldiers and athletes, delivering evidence-based tools to help them stay focused, adaptable, and emotionally regulated in some of the most intense situations imaginable.

But I’ve also seen how these same pressures play out in everyday life. I’ve witnessed students struggling with emotional overwhelm, teachers burning out, and corporate teams operating in constant survival mode.

That’s what led me to create Evolve by Choice. Here, people of all ages can learn practical, science-backed strategies to manage stress, regulate their nervous system, and build resilience from the inside out.

Because resilience isn’t just for elite performers. It’s not a personality trait. It’s not something you have to be born with. It’s a skill anyone can build when they’re given the right tools and the space to grow.

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